09 February 2010
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Attracting Women
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Sometimes its the little untouched things that make the biggest difference in attraction. One of those things happens to be encouraging independence.
Encouraging Independence
Around 90% of women need advice on becoming more independent, so why do men believe its a mistake to allow her to be independent, let alone encourage it?
Personally I believe it's down to a scarcity mentality of believing you won't get another chance or she's yours because you've worked hard thus far in obtaining her. Bad thinking. Instead its much more beneficial to encourage independence, especially if you've been talking to her a lot and say “Why don’t you go meet some guys or something?” or “That guy is checking you out; I think you could get him!”. Such a line will improve her attraction for you because its massively different from what other guys do. She'll be wondering why you'd want to 'get rid of her' as it were, and she'll come to the conclusion that you have many other options and she isn't your be all and end all.
Why she'll come back
Sometimes she'll take you up on your independence advice and chat to another man - attempting to test your confidence. All the time she'll be checking back at you to see whether or not your watching or getting jealous. If you're chilling at the bar, talking to another woman or simply enjoying yourself she's going to know your the catch. Allow her to be independent, it shows how confident you are that your the best choice in the room with an abundance mentality.
There is nothing more motivating that some diminishing item you want. Bear that in mind when encouraging independence because you'll be that diminishing item, that she wants.
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First impression is always very important. Presenting yourself properly doesn't mean that you will have to be handsome or have a well-built figure in order to impress or to seduce women. What you need to pay attention on is your dressing, manners and confidence. Women love men who are confident of themselves and at the same time, being an gentlemen.
How to Seduce Women Tips #2 Think Positively
I can give you thousands and even millions of seduction tips but without being positive that all these tips will successfully make a woman fall for you, you are never going to achieve anything with these tips. Have a positive mind and spread your positive feelings to those around you, especially women and they will fall for you easily.
How to Seduce Women Tips #3 Emphasize on Body Language
To seduce a woman, we do need some interaction with them. However, interaction can be done in various ways other than just talking and chatting to a woman. To seduce a woman, your body language plays a major role as well. Body language cannot only be interpreted during up close chats, it can be interpreted from far away. Some guys naturally get women all around him without socializing a lot. This is the power of body language at work.
How to Seduce Women Tips #4 Stop Procrastinating, Take Action
You draft out a seduction plan which includes where to meet girls which seduction method to use and where to bring a girl after she had fall for you but all of these will not bring you success if you are just staying at the planning stage. Do something. After planning everything, make sure the things you have planned happen! Planning is just a small part of how to seduce women!
How to Seduce Women Tip #5 Take Things Slowly
Most men are impatient and the impatience is what cause most men to fail to seduce women. Sometimes they are so close to success but eventually fail in female seduction just because they are too pushy. Women love sensuality and you will need to seduce her slowly. Take your time and enjoy yourself.
The 5 tips above worked for most men when they have "how to seduce women" in their mind and I am sure that the five tips above will be able to help you out as well. Remember, the art of seduction is an easy thing to learn and if you are willing to learn more, you will only get better in seducing girls.