06 October 2009
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Attracting Women
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The aim of this post is to bring up a quick cheeky tip that will make her chase you instead of the other way around.
Have you ever wondered why James Bond is so good with women? I’d say one of the reasons is because he’s always got a hidden agenda, something else going on. Frankly, he’s always busy and it doesn’t matter how beautiful she is, she can’t change it.
Being busy is a fantastic turn on because it proves you are someone who has goals, aims and most importantly – a purpose. That’s intriguing for women because they look for men who won’t drop everything for beauty and will have something whether or not she’s around. That’s also one of the reasons bad boys are so popular.
Therefore to make her chase you, be busy. That’s easy enough if you are truly busy most of the time but if you’re not, here’s a quick tip that can give the impression you’re busy –
Always End Things First
Whatever the situation, it’s always the person who ends the interaction first who commands the most power and respect. Whether it’s a phone conversation or a face to face chat, take control and set a time you are going to end it. Whether or not you’re having a good time or she’s having a good time it’s always best to end on a high note and leave room for more good times.
If you want to be even more direct about things you can tell her at the beginning that you’ve got something else to do in 5 or 10 minutes so you can’t chat for long. That way, she’ll know your time is valuable to you and she’ll respect you for not dropping everything and attending to her every whim.
If you’d like to carry on reading I suggest 16 Laws That'll Get You That Girl next.
Craig is a 22-year-old student studying psychology at Bournemouth Uni. He runs a dating blog aimed at helping every man get the perfect relationship through the psychology of dating.
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Generally, I'd say this advice depends where you are in a relationship. For example, if I was at the beginning of a relationship and my boyfriend didn't seem to have time for me, I would not be happy! However, after being in a relationship for some time, it is important for me to have my own time and for him to be slightly unattainable now and again!
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This works in theory, admittedly. But I'd say use it with caution because not every woman wants to waste her time chasing something she can't get. If you give her the impression that you're always too busy for her and never reciprocate the attention in some form then she'll feel like you aren't geniunely into her, get frustrated and move on.
Now, that's okay if she's one of many options - but think twice before mindf**king your potential dream girl.
