14 Tips to Beat Dating Failure

18 March 2010
Posted in Dating 101

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You're most likely nervous, sweating a little - maybe even considering not going. A date can be a cruel event if you're not prepared. These tips will arm you to the teeth and get you past any uncomfortable feelings.

Here's a fast break down of 14 tips that will improve your game and beat any dating failure you may have:

1. Never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s “no”. If your unobtainable, you are a challenge - women want a challenge, never give everything they want. Say no.
2. Answer questions with questions. Or something that implicates her or makes her commit to something. Be mysterious, women like not knowing everything, they won't leave you alone until they find out.
3. If she complains. Complaining about something is one of the best opportunities to playfully tease her. If she hates your music and complains, turn it up and say "Glad you like it".
4. Don’t give her exactly what she asks for. Women, expecially beautiful women have a way of getting mostly everything they desire. When a man doesn't give them what they want they need to know why. If you resist her beauty and say 'No' from point one - she'll want you.
5. Use “Let’s be friends”. Using this takes her attitude, her frame. It's normally what she does to guys so if you do it to her, she's all out of cards and your winning the game.
6. Be unpredictable. Keep changing your patterns. Having a mysterious, exciting and adventurous life is the key. Women like to be kept on their feet.
7. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. When you've got something going that she likes, stop, take 1 step back. Then a little later, take 2 steps forward and let her enjoy it again - then take another step back. Very good technique in sex.
8. If a woman tests you always raise and call her bluff. Women always test. Normally they'll bluff and call you out. E.g she may call you a jerk for laughing at her, you laugh some more. Call her bluff, don't give in.
9. Don’t be a wuss. Don't apologise, don't beg and don't need anything from her. You're a very capable man who doesn't need anything - you've got everything you need. Get rid.
10. Have a strong composure. Learn body language. Stand confidently, chest out, straight, legs apart and nothing covering your chest. You're a strong dominant man.
11. Take control of the situation. Be a leader. The situation demands someone to take charge, let that person be you. If she's in control of the current situation, take her somewhere else where you are in control.
12. Be picky. Have standards. You are important, you don't need to give yourself away from anything les than first class. Never accept second class.
13. Getting rid of and deal with insecurity. Insecurity can be a nightmare. Mask your insecurities and forget about them. You're a powerful, capable man who knows what he wants.
14. Reframe a test as she likes you. When a woman throws you a test, turn it around. Anytime a woman tests you it's because she's attracted to you - women don't test men they aren't attracted to. Therefore, turn it around. If she calls you a jerk say "awww... I can't believe how fast you fell in love with me" and smile.

Conclusion

Ideally, if you...

1. Never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s “no”
2. Answer questions with questions
3. Turn around her complaints
4. Don’t give her exactly what she asks for
5. Use “Let’s be friends” instead of her
6. Be unpredictable
7. Take 2 steps forward, 1 step back
8. Call her bluff on tests
9. Don’t be a wuss
10. Have a strong composure
11. Take control of the situation
12. Be picky and have standards
13. Get rid insecurities
14. Reframe a test as if she likes you

...you will be a real man on dates and will have no problem having as many beautiful women are you desire.

Know any tips I've missed? Comment away - I'm sure i've missed some.

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Sexy Comments (3)

written by Dating Tips , May 30, 2010

Here's a few tips to make your military single date a successful one:

1.Psyche yourself up. Remember that date your date likes you for who you are: just be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you're not because when your date comes, he'd be expecting you and not that other person. Be realistic, he's not expecting to meet a superstar look-alike but rather, he'd be expecting that wonderful person he met online. Get psyched up before you go out on your date. Reflect on all the good things that both of you know about yourself. Don't worry too much and just stay relaxed. Don't worry too much for it will only cause stress which might influence the mood of your date.

2. Do not overdress. While you must "dress to impress", finding the "perfect" outfit might just be a tad bit hard. But one thing that you want to do on your first personal encounter is to make a good impression, and one way to do that is to dress up well. But what do you wear?

Consider the venue of your date. If you opt for lunch or coffee, a charming blouse and slacks paired with closed shoes should do great. But if you are going to a dinner date at a fancy restaurant, then you'd better dress up. Bring out that special little black dress of yours. A nice dress, not too short but not too long either, is perfect. Avoid those dresses that show too much skin, but also avoid those that cover too much skin.

3. Don't put on too much make-up or perfume. More likely, your date would want to see how you look like in person. Don't ruin your skin by putting too much foundation that it would your natural color; Don't overdo the eye shadow and mascara, just apply the right colors to compliment your eyes; Avoid putting on too much lipstick because you might end up sporting too much of a pout, like a bee had stung your lips. Tease his senses by just spraying an ample amount of perfume. It's advisable that you just spray on a small amount on your pulse points: a little below the ear and at the pulse points of your wrists.

4. Be on time. It's good manners to be prompt for a date. you'd know all about this already? I know that getting ready is tricky business, but do make sure that you are ready by the time he comes knocking on your door. There's a certain limit to making a man wait, you know.

written by your neighbor, June 29, 2010

this is one gay ass blog, makes the writer seem REALLY VAIN. You're not a real man, you're a player.

written by Rencontre, August 03, 2010

I think these are good advices, but most women, and a bunch of guys (me included, actually) would say that it is pure manipulation. But at the same, I know that it is what works and what is wanted in some extent.