23 March 2010
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Meeting Women
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Real simple ways to get a number or e-mail. It's not as complex as most believe. All it normally takes is the confidence to ask for it - the rest you can play around with, here's some ideas for you.
1. With a card
- You: "Hey do you have a card handy?"
- Her: "Ummm... yep?"
- You: "Good, write down your e-mail."
2. Ask the question
- You: "Do you have e-mail?"
- Her: "Yep"
- You: "Is it something cheesy like sexkitten69?"
- Her: "umm.. nope"
- You: "I don't believe you, what is it?"
3. Trade info
- You: "Hey, let's trade information and catch up at another time."
4. Phone
- You: "Hey, do you have a phone?"
- Her: "Yep?"
- You: "Give it to me!" (Phone your own phone)
- You: "Thanks."
When she's writing her number or e-mail (whatever you asked for) tell her to write down her number or e-mail as well, so you'll have both. Usually she will without a problem.
I'm sure you can think of plenty more ways to ask for a number or email - I've listed a few here to fuel ideas. I'd really like to know your favourite way to ask so comment away.
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In regards to fashion, I can only stress not to overdo it. You are sure to find hundreds of fashion advice threads, if you ask Google. Have a look, get inspired, but do not overdo it. If you are just starting out and have never paid too much attention to your clothes, than I suggest to start out slow, gradually building your wardrobe.
Start out with the basics. Invest in a good pair of brown shoes
(brown shoes look good with almost everything and are a safe bet). Also get yourself a good pair of black, regular fit, slacks (get them in brown too). Make absolutely sure they fit you right. Some nice dress shirts are great too, plus regular t-shirts (do not go for douchy graphic tees). Basically keep it simple and expand your wardrobe gradually. Get some advice from Google. A great wardrobe will help you with finding a girlfriend.
Don't forget to have fun while you are at it. So many guys get obsessed and completely absorbed by their quest of finding a girlfriend. Don't be one of them. Don't go out, "creeping up" girls left and right. Don't get discouraged and upset by failure or rejection either. Finding a girlfriend will take some time and effort, so just stick to it. Don't forget your friends and spend some quality time with your buddies. Remember, balance is everything!