11 March 2010
Posted in Meeting Women
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The odds are against any man in a club looking for girls. Unless you know the difference between key concepts of fishing vs hunting which are explained in the next paragraph.
Fishing vs Hunting
Hunting is the normal play that happens in clubs. Men roaming the dance floors and bars using bait (free drinks) looking for women. However successful the average hunter accredits himself to be, a fisher will be far more successful in the long run.
Fishing is the natural way and if often not seen often in clubs. It's when a man decides what type of woman he wants, adjusted himself appropriately and reels in woman as they approach him. He'll usually do it by standing out, having interesting friends around him or simply by enjoying himself. Almost the opposite of the hunter.
The disadvantage of hunting is mainly down to the fact that women expect it. They know 95% of men in a club are hunting for women and women often don't enjoy being hunted. Instead they'd rather look for a man they're interested in.
The advantages of fishing if that you will be that man they're interested in. These days women will approach men, a lot more commonly than most men believe. If you're having fun, she'll want to have fun with you safe in the knowledge your not going to start hunting her - your too busy having fun.
The main point to bring up is that women can easily tell who the hunters and the fishers are. It's no secret. Therefore, if a woman sees you hunting she's much more likely to stay away from you or accept the free drink and 'disappear' when your back is turned. On the other hand, if your fishing she'll most likely be buying you drinks because she wants to be with you, having a good time.
You've read the advantages and disadvantages, if you were previously a hunter you now have the information required to become a fisher and increase your game. Clubs can be evil places if you're not fully informed, read 5 mistakes men make in clubs and enjoy yourself next time you're at a club or if you're already a fisher - leave a comment of how you personally find it, readers would love to know!
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